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The probability of depression peaks around 44
yrs old - University of Warwick/Dartmouth College
"[people] seek position, marriage, reputation, outward
success or money, and remain unhappy .. even when they have attained
what they were seeking." - Carl Jung
What have I achieved? What is there to look forward to? Finding
that you start to doubt yourself and try to 'rediscover' your youth
in mid-life is often described as a 'crisis'. For many, it's a bit
of a joke - and embarrassing when you realise that's exactly where
you are. And then it's not a joke, and it can become a cause of
strife and depression.
But perhaps it's absolutely normal for men and women to feel more
vulnerable as the ego which has driven us successfully through the
first half of life begins to step back and allow our undiscovered,
more reflective, 'Self' to wake up. And perhaps we should look at
it as a natural and wonderful opportunity to learn, rebalance and
grow to fulfill a wider and wiser role in society and for humanity.
Coaching provides a supportive and confidential opportunity for
you to welcome and explore this change, identify resources which
can lead you through the storm and, indeed, harness its energy for
the second half of your life.
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the crisis
of mid-life can serve to wake up our undiscovered Self
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